A weekend without a moment spent in Manhattan. I think I’ll call Queens home now.

Friday night, we (me, Melanie, Andy, Reggie, and Anna) decided to patronize the local restaurant scene and opted for Mundo, a hip Turkish/Argentinian joint on Broadway and 32nd Street (no, not the K-town spot, but an Astoria address). The food was unique, the wine was cheap (and tasty), and the service was excellent. I enjoyed the crabmeat and asparagus dip, the Turkish meatballs, the shrimp casserole, and the Turkish dumplings. Highly, highly recommended.

Saturday was a very busy day. We worked hard to prepare for our housewarming party later in the evening as we cleaned, cooked, and put some finishing touches to our humble quarters. Melanie and Reggie came up huge as they took charge of the food preparations – a Mexican themed menu which included beef tacos, roasted vegetables, chicken fajitas, turkey nachos, mango guacamole, and other delicious dishes. I worked with Andy to prepare the red sangria although Melanie later concocted the white sangria that she said was better than mine. John bought two sunflowers – one for his room and one for the living room – which did a great job in brightening up the space. Wook lent his handyman skills as he worked the details of the apartment, nailing down loose wires, painting missed spots, and removing blemishes from the floors. And then the guests came bearing wonderful gifts, mostly of the vino variety (to help populate our beautiful wine fridge), as well as key additions such as the coffeemaker, wine glasses, and decorative pieces for our living room shelf. Thanks to everyone who showed up! It was heartwarming to see the many people who ventured out to Queens – some for the first time – to check out our place. Photos are available in my photo gallery.

Sunday, we began by cleaning up the place, which took us into the afternoon. Melanie made us a tasty beef and vegetable casserole from the previous night’s leftovers and we got to try the coffeemaker with ground coffee beans from Starbucks. The dining table in the living room is quickly becoming a regular part of our lives as we find ourselves eating more and more meals there. We watched Tiger Woods win his second consective British Open and spent our day at a leisurely pace. When dinnertime rolled around, I went shopping for food with Andy as we looked to prepare a steak dinner for me, Andy and Wook. Andy and I whipped up a vegetable dish using asparagus, onions, bell peppers, carrots, and pears and Andy used his Food Network knowledge to season the steak using our limited ingredients. The meal was well complemented with a bottle of Bourgogne red wine that I bought from Columbus Circle Wine & Liquors earlier in the week. We sat together and watched Entourage as well as the last part of the Miss Universe pageant to round out our weekend of relaxation.

It’s a funny feeling I have these days. My life has changed drastically in so many different ways in just the past few weeks. A new residence, a new vocation (or lack of a former one), and exposure to different (although familiar) people. I’m having a great time, and while there’s a bit of am I doing the right thing? floating at the back of my mind, I’m also very grateful that things have turned out so well. Not to be overloaded with feel-good sentiment, but I’d say I’m on a very optimistic streak right now.

And one more thing about Queens. It’s definitely a different pace and scene. The frequent drives around town in Andy’s old Mazda (our “Mazderati”), working out at the grimy gym, the late-night cigarette breaks on the fire escape balcony, and killing the occasional roach for a horrified John are just some of the charming moments I’ve grown to like about my new living situation. I do feel a bit removed from the hustle and bustle of Manhattan, and although I’ll continually find myself going into the City for various reasons, I’m getting used to the idea that I live in an Outer Borough. B&T, that’s right.

The hours at work have been pretty rough in the past month, especially with three deals closing in consecutive weeks. Not that it’s been so miserable — I’ve actually felt good about some of my contributions to the group, and I recently had a year-end review which turned out much better than I had expected. Nonetheless, I need to remind myself that certain passions and interests await and that they will soon be indulged. Some notes – for myself, if not for the few who trek the vast webscape to read my entries:

* moving to Astoria next week. goodbye to the luxurious high-rise of 420 west 42nd street. i’ll miss the doormen, the ridiculous view from the 36th floor, and the convenience of major subways nearby. but paying half the rent and getting a quieter, different look at life slightly outside of New York will be very interesting. and to be exact, my address will read Long Island City. my roommates will be Andy Ni and John Jung.

* will make films again. i have a craving for making motion pictures. yes, i studied film in school and even made a few movies for fun (check out this one about a kid who decides to do banking and regrets it) – and i think when time becomes available, I will definitely look to write, direct, film, and edit some shorts. i’m a huge fan of Hou Hsiao-Hsien, especially his films starring Shu Qi and hope to make films similar to Three Times and Millenium Mambo.

* it’s called Barrel LLC. wook, dan, and i can finally call ourselves small business owners. we’ve been incorporated in the state of New York, although we still have a ton of paperwork to complete and fees to pay before we can whip out our company cards and company Blackberries. design, branding, marketing, e-publishing, and consulting will be our primary service offerings. we hope to make lots of money, learn many things, and be proud of our work – and not necessarily in that order.

* melanie comes back from Taiwan in a few weeks. she never writes about me in her blog though.

* write. it’ll be about a bunch of korean american kids who grow up with their awesome Christian names. i swear, i’m going to write it.

* re-entry into social life. care about columbia again, host dinner parties, seek out old friends/acquaintances, try to organize an HBA event.

* take things slow, don’t have a plan, and stop being so anxious.